- Energy 6 in the Destiny Matrix corresponds to the arcana The Lovers and is considered the energy of love, relationships, communication and life-defining choice.
- Love is the fuel of energy 6, and the source of that love lies inside the person.
- A person with energy 6 receives money through love for their work, through communication and through beauty.
- In its minus, energy 6 shows up as touchiness, suspicion, dependence on other people's opinions, idealising people and an inability to make a choice.
- The karmic task of energy 6 is to build partnership, learn unconditional love and make choices without regretting them.
The sixth energy in the Destiny Matrix corresponds to the arcana The Lovers. It is the energy of love, relationships, communication and sensuality, and also the energy of life-defining choice. Love sits at the centre of such a person's whole life: they need to love everything they do. The six is called a doubled three, so it carries a lot of The Empress: refined taste and a wish for your partner to do everything exactly the way you want it.
People with a six are sociable, good-looking and pleasant to talk to. They communicate in every way available, enjoy meeting in person and gathering with friends, win people over easily and end up at the centre of attention. They have a fine sense of style and wide connections, their homes are cosy and beautiful, and loneliness does not exist for them. Those with a strongly expressed six are naturally very beautiful, yet they often change their appearance: they consider themselves not beautiful enough and believe beautiful people are loved more.
Love is the fuel of the six. If there was not enough of it in childhood, the person looks for it in the outside world: through affairs, attention-seeking or burying themselves in work so that someone will finally appreciate them. Yet the source of love lies inside the person. Most often this arcana sits in its minus and sounds like a demand: "love me", "give me", "write to me", "call me".
In its plus, the six becomes a resource of love. The person gives a lot of love to those around them and receives love back: as money, a crowd of clients, gifts, connections. In its minus, they live in the mode of taking love, and then nothing works out; all that remains is a constant need for other people. Blocking this energy deprives the person of the results the Universe has prepared for them.
The main theme of the arcana is the union of man and woman. Love is always tied to choice and change, and true love leads to growth. Genuine unconditional love is born in joy and light towards everything the Creator has made, and a day lived without love is a day lived in vain: on such a day the soul sleeps. A person with a six builds relationships all their life, and those relationships become either an example to follow or an example of the kind of relationship to avoid.
- You communicate with ease, make friends and contacts, find common ground with people and smooth over conflicts. You are an excellent organiser.
- You carry a colossal charge of love: you build relationships wherever you find yourself, and people are drawn to you for this energy.
- Refined taste and a sense of style: you appreciate art and beauty, set trends and are often a gourmet.
- You surround yourself with beautiful things and pleasant people and make everything around you more beautiful: your partner, children, home, workplace, business.
- How you look and the impression you make matter to you. You are artistic, you enjoy admiration and you know how to make people fall for you.
- You love yourself and those close to you unconditionally. Physical contact, compliments and the feeling of being needed matter to you.
- You are hospitable, you love celebrations, parties and good food, you know how to create a festive mood and you become the heart of any gathering.
- You are emotional and fall in love easily: you give yourself fully to a relationship and feel everything vividly and deeply.
- You are confident and do not depend on other people's opinions; you know how to choose with your heart and fill yourself with love on your own. You understand that what matters in a person is what is inside.
- You stay positive in any situation and find beauty even in small things.
- Touchiness, vulnerability, suspicion and mistrust.
- Dependence on the opinions of others and on your partner, lack of self-love, attempts to please and be convenient, the straight-A-student complex.
- Idealising people and the world, rose-tinted glasses, excessive demands on yourself and others, followed by disappointment. In the search for an ideal, the person forgets to live here and now and postpones happiness until a new love or a new job.
- Fixation on outer beauty and your own looks, insecurities about them, superficiality, judging people by their form rather than their substance.
- A closed heart: laziness, depression, refusing to communicate. The person dresses plainly, chooses comfort over beauty and turns into a "grey mouse"; the home becomes faceless too.
- Conditional love on the principle of "prove yourself first, then I will give you my love", fear of showing feelings openly, callousness.
- Affairs that last for years, indiscriminate liaisons, unrequited relationships, inability to choose one person and let go of past connections.
- An agonising choice between two options, indecision, fear of making a mistake, putting things off out of uncertainty that the result will be perfect.
- Jealousy, emotional pressure on your partner, rows for the sake of passion, hysterics.
- Hatred, cunning and vindictiveness, socialising out of politeness, gain or calculation, careerism and intrigue.
In different points of the chart
The same energy is read differently depending on where it stands.
6 · In the day of birth · point A
A six in your day of birth gives you charm, excellent communication skills and refined taste. You are driven by a need to be liked, and your main motivation in life is tied to love between a man and a woman. Your lesson: to love truly and unconditionally, not for something in return.
You usually have many friends and acquaintances, and your character is pleasant and courteous. You admire everything beautiful, choose prestigious work and become a trendsetter in many areas of life. You know how to present yourself and attract attention; you are kind and responsive, artistic and creative.
In its minus, what comes to the fore is capriciousness, a tendency to gloom and complaining, insecurity and holding grudges. You are too absorbed in the external: looks, clothes, gestures. Men with such a six are often womanisers, and women are fixated on their appearance.
In relationships, the minus six steers your choice of partner through emotions. It is a hysterical make-up: the search for an ideal partner, idealising them, a tendency to outbursts, emotional stubbornness. The person unconsciously pushes their partner into a row to get the heat of passion, a stormy reconciliation, words of love, apologies and make-up sex, because any conflict brings emotions.
- Work on your insecurity: raise your self-esteem and accept yourself. This brings out your best qualities.
- Learn to love sincerely, not for the sake of outward displays.
- Remember that emotions can be found peacefully, without conflict.
6 · In the month · point B
A six in your month of birth speaks of a gift from above: the power of communication and sensuality, refined taste, the ability to see beauty in everything and to create it. You receive divine energy and help through sincere, bright relationships with people, especially with the one you love. Your contact with the Higher Powers runs through unconditional love for all living things, and first of all for yourself.
This energy produces beautiful people and draws them to businesses connected with beauty. You are filled with love and can give it to the world: write about love, speak about it, help people find a partner. You are artistic by nature, and other people's emotions and talents light you up. You are compassionate and understand people well, like a psychologist.
Your guardian angel may be someone in love, a caring husband or wife, a person devoted to family life, someone in a creative profession (a singer, a bard, a performer), a twin, a partner, a brother or sister. Contact is blocked by idealisation and doubt about your choice. If you do not accept your body and your inner beauty, the fear of loving cuts off your link with the Higher Powers.
Insecurity and dependence on other people's opinions are common in this position. The key task here is to build a healthy relationship with yourself, accept yourself and stop being afraid to face the world without make-up and with an open heart. How you feel about yourself directly affects how others perceive you. As you strengthen your bond with yourself, you unlock intuition and sensitivity and become a more whole and free person.
- Love without demanding anything in return, and aim for complete harmony in partnership.
- Draw energy from love and creativity, and learn to create them within yourself.
- When you have no strength left, take energy from the outside world: films and books about love, a restaurant, affection, tenderness.
- Rely on your own judgement rather than the opinions of others.
6 · In the year · point C
In your year of birth, the six shows mostly in its minus. It brings inner instability, insecurity, suspicion, vulnerability and dependence on other people's opinions. Self-sufficiency and self-acceptance become your support.
This position also brings capriciousness, touchiness and a tendency to depression. The person is prone to superficiality and a focus on externals.
There is no perfection in the world, so excessive self-criticism and unrealistic expectations only get in the way. Once you learn to respect, accept and forgive yourself, you will be able to treat others the same way. Acceptance is love.
- Build self-sufficiency: do not rely on others, do not make idols for yourself, be independent.
- Train yourself to look deeper and to be sincere in relationships. Shift from appearance to the deeper sides of self-realisation.
- Open your heart to love and do not expect it in return. Do not hoard grievances, let go of outdated connections, do not cling to the past.
- Speak your dissatisfaction and misunderstanding out loud: it helps you accept yourself and others.
6 · In the bottom corner · point D
The karmic task of the six: to build partnership properly and learn unconditional love for yourself, people, the world, your work and your children. You need to love without idealising. The second part of the task concerns choice: to make it and not regret it.
Karma shows itself through repeating events. These are quarrels, divorces, loneliness, an inability to choose and take responsibility for your decisions, and aggression towards yourself and others.
To open unconditional love within yourself, you need to pay special attention to clearing the negative karma tied to the energy of the number 6. The sign of such karma: you are stuck in past connections, memories and events, and you relive them again and again.
- Learn to love and accept the world as it is.
- Build partnerships, make decisions and take responsibility for them.
- Make a conscious choice to step out of the circle of the past. Once you let it go, you will direct your energy to the present and to the future you want.
- Allow yourself to make mistakes and take experience from them. Do not chase an unattainable ideal; work on your character and your destiny every day and do not blame yourself for slip-ups.
6 · In the centre · comfort zone
A six in the centre of the matrix describes your comfort zone. You get energy from communication and from work you love: it matters to do what you love or to love what you do. You need love, pleasure, partnership, attention, affection and conversation.
You feel comfortable in a close-knit team and among beautiful things. You like collecting something, hosting guests, creating beauty with your own hands and wearing stylish clothes. You enjoy sincere praise, and you need adoration and a sense of celebration.
Discomfort comes from a dull atmosphere, stagnation, a lack of romance, and cramped, stuffy, closed rooms. You love sex, romance and the places that invite them: nature, water, the cinema, the sauna, a cafe, meeting friends. You need an exchange of feelings and emotions, passion, massage.
Society sees you as a sociable, good-looking person with a sense of style and wide connections. To those around you, you are the hospitable host and the one people gather around.
- Love yourself and others unconditionally, without trying to earn love or fit in with someone else's opinion. Be honest and sincere with yourself.
- Give love and build relationships without demanding anything in return. Then more people ready for the same selfless exchange will appear beside you.
- Grow love inside yourself. People will come to you for it of their own accord, giving back money, knowledge, connections, help, gifts and happiness.
- Give up idealising: nothing is perfect. Accept the world in all its variety, light and dark, do not put labels on people, actions and events, and look at inner qualities.
- Notice the good in people and drop the criticism and aggression towards whatever seems improper to you. Study the laws of the Universe so that you do not answer other people's negativity with your own.
- Train a positive outlook: deliberately find something beautiful in every situation until it becomes a habit.
- Accept the choices you have made and do not regret them, trusting the Universe. Let go of past relationships and do not carry them into the future.
- Be among like-minded people, and if your current circle does not suit you, create your own. Turn life into a celebration that begins with inner joy and lightness, and help others feel more beautiful and happier.
Where this energy stands in your chart
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Questions people ask
What does energy 6 mean in the Destiny Matrix?
It is the arcana The Lovers, the energy of love, relationships, communication and life-defining choice. A person with a six is sociable and charming, has refined taste and carries a great charge of love that draws people to them. Love is their fuel, and the source of that love lies within them.
How does energy 6 show in its minus?
The person becomes touchy, vulnerable and suspicious, depends on other people's opinions and on their partner, idealises people and then is disappointed in them. Love turns into a demand or a condition; affairs, jealousy, rows for the sake of emotion and an agonising choice between two options appear. The other form of the minus: a closed heart, depression, refusing to communicate and the plain look of a "grey mouse".
How do you bring energy 6 into its plus?
Love yourself and others unconditionally, give love without demanding anything in return and grow it within yourself. Give up idealising, accept the world and people as they are, choose with your heart and do not regret it. Create beauty around you and keep to a circle of like-minded people.
What does energy 6 mean in relationships?
In the relationship channel, the six describes a partner who is sociable, charming and tender, who gives a lot of attention and love and expects the same in return. In its minus, they never have enough love, are dissatisfied and search for an invented ideal of a relationship. It matters for the couple to do everything in love and harmony, support each other and find shared interests.
How does energy 6 affect money, and what work suits it?
Money comes through love for your work, communication and beauty, and is cut off when the work is unloved. Suitable fields are the beauty industry, fashion and design, creative professions, organising people and events, sales, marriage agencies and relationship counselling. The flow is blocked by a lack of self-love and the belief "I do not deserve this money".
What does energy 6 mean in the Destiny Matrix?
Energy 6 in the Destiny Matrix matches the arcanum The Lovers. Like each of the 22 energies it shows in a plus and in a minus, and its meaning depends on the point where it stands.
How do I find out whether I have energy 6?
Calculate your Destiny Matrix chart by date of birth. The calculator shows all 30 points; one energy can stand in several points at once.
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