Arcana 6 in the Destiny Matrix: The Lovers

6 · In the day of birth · point A

A six in your day of birth gives you charm, excellent communication skills and refined taste. You are driven by a need to be liked, and your main motivation in life is tied to love between a man and a woman. Your lesson: to love truly and unconditionally, not for something in return.

You usually have many friends and acquaintances, and your character is pleasant and courteous. You admire everything beautiful, choose prestigious work and become a trendsetter in many areas of life. You know how to present yourself and attract attention; you are kind and responsive, artistic and creative.

In its minus, what comes to the fore is capriciousness, a tendency to gloom and complaining, insecurity and holding grudges. You are too absorbed in the external: looks, clothes, gestures. Men with such a six are often womanisers, and women are fixated on their appearance.

In relationships, the minus six steers your choice of partner through emotions. It is a hysterical make-up: the search for an ideal partner, idealising them, a tendency to outbursts, emotional stubbornness. The person unconsciously pushes their partner into a row to get the heat of passion, a stormy reconciliation, words of love, apologies and make-up sex, because any conflict brings emotions.

• Work on your insecurity: raise your self-esteem and accept yourself. This brings out your best qualities.
• Learn to love sincerely, not for the sake of outward displays.
• Remember that emotions can be found peacefully, without conflict.

6 · In the month · point B

A six in your month of birth speaks of a gift from above: the power of communication and sensuality, refined taste, the ability to see beauty in everything and to create it. You receive divine energy and help through sincere, bright relationships with people, especially with the one you love. Your contact with the Higher Powers runs through unconditional love for all living things, and first of all for yourself.

This energy produces beautiful people and draws them to businesses connected with beauty. You are filled with love and can give it to the world: write about love, speak about it, help people find a partner. You are artistic by nature, and other people's emotions and talents light you up. You are compassionate and understand people well, like a psychologist.

Your guardian angel may be someone in love, a caring husband or wife, a person devoted to family life, someone in a creative profession (a singer, a bard, a performer), a twin, a partner, a brother or sister. Contact is blocked by idealisation and doubt about your choice. If you do not accept your body and your inner beauty, the fear of loving cuts off your link with the Higher Powers.

Insecurity and dependence on other people's opinions are common in this position. The key task here is to build a healthy relationship with yourself, accept yourself and stop being afraid to face the world without make-up and with an open heart. How you feel about yourself directly affects how others perceive you. As you strengthen your bond with yourself, you unlock intuition and sensitivity and become a more whole and free person.

• Love without demanding anything in return, and aim for complete harmony in partnership.
• Draw energy from love and creativity, and learn to create them within yourself.
• When you have no strength left, take energy from the outside world: films and books about love, a restaurant, affection, tenderness.
• Rely on your own judgement rather than the opinions of others.

6 · In the year · point C

In your year of birth, the six shows mostly in its minus. It brings inner instability, insecurity, suspicion, vulnerability and dependence on other people's opinions. Self-sufficiency and self-acceptance become your support.

This position also brings capriciousness, touchiness and a tendency to depression. The person is prone to superficiality and a focus on externals.

There is no perfection in the world, so excessive self-criticism and unrealistic expectations only get in the way. Once you learn to respect, accept and forgive yourself, you will be able to treat others the same way. Acceptance is love.

• Build self-sufficiency: do not rely on others, do not make idols for yourself, be independent.
• Train yourself to look deeper and to be sincere in relationships. Shift from appearance to the deeper sides of self-realisation.
• Open your heart to love and do not expect it in return. Do not hoard grievances, let go of outdated connections, do not cling to the past.
• Speak your dissatisfaction and misunderstanding out loud: it helps you accept yourself and others.

6 · In the bottom corner · point D

The karmic task of the six: to build partnership properly and learn unconditional love for yourself, people, the world, your work and your children. You need to love without idealising. The second part of the task concerns choice: to make it and not regret it.

Karma shows itself through repeating events. These are quarrels, divorces, loneliness, an inability to choose and take responsibility for your decisions, and aggression towards yourself and others.

To open unconditional love within yourself, you need to pay special attention to clearing the negative karma tied to the energy of the number 6. The sign of such karma: you are stuck in past connections, memories and events, and you relive them again and again.

• Learn to love and accept the world as it is.
• Build partnerships, make decisions and take responsibility for them.
• Make a conscious choice to step out of the circle of the past. Once you let it go, you will direct your energy to the present and to the future you want.
• Allow yourself to make mistakes and take experience from them. Do not chase an unattainable ideal; work on your character and your destiny every day and do not blame yourself for slip-ups.

6 · In the centre · comfort zone

A six in the centre of the matrix describes your comfort zone. You get energy from communication and from work you love: it matters to do what you love or to love what you do. You need love, pleasure, partnership, attention, affection and conversation.

You feel comfortable in a close-knit team and among beautiful things. You like collecting something, hosting guests, creating beauty with your own hands and wearing stylish clothes. You enjoy sincere praise, and you need adoration and a sense of celebration.

Discomfort comes from a dull atmosphere, stagnation, a lack of romance, and cramped, stuffy, closed rooms. You love sex, romance and the places that invite them: nature, water, the cinema, the sauna, a cafe, meeting friends. You need an exchange of feelings and emotions, passion, massage.

Society sees you as a sociable, good-looking person with a sense of style and wide connections. To those around you, you are the hospitable host and the one people gather around.

Entry to the love line

A six at the entrance to the relationship channel shows how you seek attention. In its minus, you want to stand out from everyone by any means and make sure that your achievements in particular are recognised. In its plus, you simply do what you enjoy and receive attention thanks to your uniqueness.

The wish to be special turns the minus six into a show-off. It matters to the person that they, specifically, are noticed and appreciated.

Love line

A six in the relationship channel describes a partner who is sociable, charming and tender. They look after themselves, love everything beautiful, show a lot of attention and love, and expect the same in return. Beauty and sensuality in a relationship matter to them, and they share both generously.

In its minus, such a partner never has enough love. They behave like an energy vampire, are always dissatisfied and search for an ideal relationship they invented themselves.

Balance point

A six at the balance point between money and relationships asks for equilibrium between your circle and your partner. It matters that you stay among like-minded people and do not close yourself off from society, while not fixating solely on the one you love.

Touch keeps the warmth in a couple. Physical affection and massage help you relax.

Entry to the money line

A six at the entrance to the money channel shows what stops money from coming. It is a fixation on having your achievements noticed and praised, a negative mindset, strong dependence on your partner and an inability to choose between two options. The flow is opened by selfless love, trust in people and loyalty to the choice you have made.

The financial flow is blocked by competing with those around you for attention and by focusing on relationships alone. Neglect gets in the way too: when there is no care for your appearance and no cosiness at home, money does not come.

Money line

A six in the money channel brings money through love. It comes when you love your profession and is cut off when you do not. Finances come through communication, through work you love or a hobby turned into work, and through beauty.

Money reaches you through interest-based organisations and places where people have fun and socialise. You can be involved in several projects at once, for example combining a business with your main occupation. In its plus, you have many friends, you are friendly and build relationships easily, which makes you a good salesperson.

Suitable professions

• The beauty industry: stylist, make-up artist, cosmetologist, hairdresser, tattoo artist.
• Fashion and design: fashion designer, model, interior designer, landscape designer, costume designer, jeweller.
• Creative work: artist, photographer, director, actor, playwright, writer, poet.
• Stage and celebrations: concert and festival host, master of ceremonies, conductor, DJ, entertainer.
• Relationships between people: marriage agency, professional matchmaker, anything to do with weddings, relationship psychologist, marriage counsellor.
• Organising people: producer, organiser, administrator, sales and HR manager, recruiter, coach, hobby clubs, events and dating.
• Communication and mediation: journalist, intermediary, consultant, distributor.
• Partnership and co-founding, developing social and creative projects.
• Medicine.

Talent zone

Your talents: the ability to attract people, events and circumstances, an innate sense of harmony and refined taste. You create beauty, cosiness and style, you know how to be a friend and how to see the good in any situation. What fills you is love and a choice made with the heart.

You have the ability to create loving relationships and bring couples together, and good partners come to you. You create beauty, comfort and cosiness at home with your own hands and know how to choose and combine clothes. Outer attractiveness and charisma are complemented by an aesthetic instinct. Your sense of harmony lets you harmonise a space, the masculine and the feminine, intuition and reason. You have an open soul, you are ready to help, you build long-term connections and stay loyal in friendship and partnership.

Purpose

The purpose of the six: to share love and bring peace. You come to be a carrier and conductor of true love and harmony, a benchmark in the sphere of personal relationships. In the third purpose, this energy sets the task of creating the fruits of your creativity and earning money from them.

The main task for people with this code is to learn to share their energy of love. When you give it without demanding anything in return, people who truly value it come into your life, and results you never even dreamed of appear. The people you build relationships with will build their own for the rest of their lives either by your example or knowing which kind of relationship to stay away from. Relationships that ended badly get in the way of this task: sharing becomes hard, showing feelings becomes frightening, and the energy is blocked.

Family task

A six in the family lines says that an ancestor failed the test of love. The lineage carries the destruction of love, the loss of a partner and shallow relationships kept for gain or outward polish. Your task: to revive love in the lineage, learn to love unconditionally and choose with your heart.

The ancestor depended on other people's opinions when making choices. The ancestral programme of The Lovers includes a programme of promiscuity: difficulty choosing in love, a love triangle, affairs, an attempt to sit on two chairs at once. It also includes love magic (binding and repelling spells) and unhealthy, dependent relationships, where one loves and the other merely allows themselves to be loved, and the first is ready to give up everything for their partner.

Parent and child karma

A six in the parent-child channel speaks of a lack of love and of falling short of an ideal. Your parents may have overlooked your talents and achievements, tried to fit you to their ideal, and given little praise and care. The task of these relationships: to love your parents and children unconditionally, without idealising them.

In adult life such a childhood produces insecurity and low self-esteem. The person constantly wants to stand out and make themselves known so as to be noticed and praised, strives to become perfect and is always dissatisfied with themselves. Resentment towards the parents comes from not being loved enough and from their failure to match an ideal: comparison with other people's parents did not go in their favour. Sometimes parents deliberately hold back love so that the child learns to love them unconditionally.

Arcana of a year of life

A year under the sixth energy may bring the arrival of love or the birth of a child. A project connected with a team or with beauty is also possible.

The events of such a year are tied to the main themes of the six: love, people and beauty. In personal life this means the arrival of love and the birth of a child; in work, a project connected with a team or with beauty.

In a child

A child with the sixth energy is very tender and vulnerable and sees beauty in everything. They are creative, responsive, love dressing beautifully and being among like-minded people. More than anything they need love, care and support.

Such a child can create something unusual and beautiful and enjoys making their surroundings beautiful and cosy. They are always ready to help. Children with this energy start choosing their own outfits early.